Tuesday, December 09, 2008
Sigh~~~ I seem to be sighing a lot in this blog... On the other hand, I sound so mad in the other blog... This is me... The first thing that always pop out in my head when trying to update this blog is S-I-G-H... I have actually been told that sighing can make you feel more relaxed... But I just don't have the habit of sighing except while blogging... My mum used to tell me that sighing will bring me bad luck and being the somehow "superstitious" or should I say ignorant, I don't really sigh... As time passed, I realised that my mum was actually bullshitting... Hahaha... Shhh... Don't let my mum knows... Of course she didn't tell me that... That's from me... She just doesn't want me to sigh a lot... Anyway, although I don't let out a big breath, somehow I am so used to "aiyo", "haiyo", "arghhh" and stuff like that... Hehe...
Back to serious matter now... How many times must I repeat myself that fate brings two people together... But maintaining it requires the effort of both of the party... Understanding each other's heart is not difficult... Just put in your heart... Everything will be fine... But of course this does not apply if only one person is doing... There's no such thing as who is the giver and who is the receiver... Both play the same role of giver and receiver... This is how things work... Everyone deserves happiness let alone being in a relationship... Girls when being in a relationship will really commit their heart and soul... They are as simple as a child whose desire are the attention, care, love and concern from their loved ones... Is that very difficult???
Listen here, no one is supposed to have the same ending as I had... As for my girls, please fight for the happiness you deserve... It pains my heart to see you all fretting over relationship problem... Relationship should be something that can bring a smile on your face when thinking of the other half of yours... When thinking of him, you will realise how lucky you are being showered with care, concern and love... When you are with him, you are allowed to be stubborn and wilful... Once in a while, having squabbles over small little things can add some spice to the relationship but not quarreling over small little things... The spice will bring damage to the relationship...
Aren't all these what a relationship should be or am I still living in my dreamland??? Maybe I am not applying my intelligence again this time... Spouting nonsense here but somehow I do believe this kind of relationship exists...
If I start my post with a sigh, let me end it with a sigh... Sigh~~~~